April 24, 2024.
A few hours ago, I uploaded Pic of the Day 140, which was quite lengthy, and it seems to have exceeded the word limit allowed in a post here on Blogland, so the system cut it off abruptly, and it ended without any conclusion. Therefore, I have decided to upload the truncated part in a new Pic of the Day, and thus, 140 and 141 together form a coherent set. In fact, 140 is cut off when I started to recount how Francis and I officially became lovers, so I have resumed that part and included it here for you to have the complete Lover's Ceremony and its implications explained. Following that, this post continues with a few more things about Olaso, and that's a wrap. In a couple of days, I will upload another Pic of the Day recounting how my relationship with Olaso has been since then, having had our last encounter in 2019..
, ,[[ Image 1. As I've mentioned in the previous Pic of the Day and in numerous regular Posts, when I was 23 years old and at the beginning of our relationship, once Francis and I started having sex alone apart from threesomes with my husband, he and I would often sleep together in my marital bed. This was either because my husband stayed up studying until late in the room next door or because he had gone to one of the many conferences and scientific meetings he attended at that time. In fact, I've already mentioned how at the beginning of my marriage to Dan, I had much more and better sex with Francis than with him. These three photos were taken by Francis one morning during one of my husband's absences at a conference. Francis placed the mirror from the room on the bed to experiment with ideas that would later be reflected in potential drawings and paintings. Take a look at the second photo, and on the bedside table, you can see a large number of Polaroid photos that Francis had taken of me during the days we spent together on that occasion. ]]
So, without further ado, here we go with the continuation of Pic of the Day 140:
There is a nuance that I want to clarify, and that is that you see that I say things like "when Francis and I started having sex alone", but I don't say that at that very moment we became lovers, because I clearly differentiate between the two concepts. In my life I have had sex with many men after marriage without my husband being present, and that's not why I consider them my lovers, but rather flirts, patrons, special friends, fuck buddies, etc. I had all of those throughout my life. But I only consider as my lovers for some time, ranging from a few months to twenty years, José Manuel, Francis, Lalo, Dean, and Sir Ulf, meaning that out of the almost eighty men I've had sex with so far, I only consider that five of them have been my lovers at some point, besides my husband, of course.
Speaking specifically about Francis, he and I had sex for the first time in a threesome with my husband at the end of August when I was 23 years old. Shortly after, Francis and I had sex alone for the first time in early October, but we didn't become lovers per se until January, when I had just turned 24.
Even my husband, Francis and I, along with two witnesses, performed a sort of "Lovers' Ceremony," including signing documents. We simply called it "The Surrender" or "The Surrendering," in which Francis formally asked my husband for permission to share me with him. My husband consented with the only conditions being that he protect and care for me as if I were his legal wife and replace Dan in all respects when he was absent. I agreed to be his partner and "surrendered" to Francis; from that moment on, it was "almost" as if I had two husbands for twenty years. As I mentioned before, there were two witnesses, who are a married couple, friends of Dan and Francis since childhood, who also signed the documents. And by chance, at the end of this month of June, that couple and Francis are coming to spend a weekend with us at our house in France.
We exchanged gifts; I gave Francis a Tissot automatic watch, which he still wears to this day. Francis gave me a series of framed portraits of famous scientists, which have been hanging in the main entrance of our house ever since. Francis and I also gifted Dan a set of Montblanc pen, pencil, and fountain pen, with the clips engraved with the date of the Ceremony and "With gratitude, F & A" (initials of Francis and Aura, of course). And Dan gave Francis a SLR Canon A1 camera -he still keeps it-, and to me a gold necklace with the clasp engraved with the date of that day and 'Carpe Diem'… typical of Dan. Then, the five of us went to have lunch at a very nice restaurant, Dan paid, and afterwards, Francis and I went on a "Lovers' Honeymoon" for a week in Dan’s Dyane 6, touring the most historic and ancient cities in northern Spain, staying in the best "Paradores Nacionales" in the area - I recommend that you Google "Paradores Nacionales in Spain," you'll be tempted to visit those places. By the way... the honeymoon with Dan just nine months before was only four days.
, ,[[ Image 2. Three photos in threesomes with my husband and Francis years after what I'm narrating here, I was 33 or 34 years old and Francis and I had been "officially" lovers for over ten years. In the first photo Francis is at the right of the photo with his cock pointing upwards and Dan at the right with his cock pointing downwards. In the second and third photo Francis is fucking me and my husband took the photo, he loves to see me fucking with other guys, and in special with Francis, but also years later with Dean, and Sir Ulf while he was impaling me. They were taken with one of the first digital cameras that came out, it was a Kodak DC40 with 750x500 pixels with a file size about 0,15 Mb (my husband told me all these data), all of the digital cameras back then had pitiful photographic quality; the originals are in color, but they look much better in black and white. ]]
I'll give you one more piece of information: due to family reasons (Dan's parents' insistence), we baptized my daughter - Dan didn't attend the baptism - and Francis was and is my daughter's godfather. When my husband was away for a conference or visiting a university or research center abroad, which happened often, Francis and I lived together in my home or his from the moment he had one. That's why Francis lived with me for almost seven months when, at the age of 29-30 and having recently given birth, my husband was leading an international research project in Paris. And also, at the age of 38-39, I lived with Francis for three months in his house, trying to get pregnant by him.
Indeed, I've been a woman with practically two husbands for twenty years. But I have to say that while I've always been romantically in love with my husband, I was never in love with Francis, and he was only in love with me during a brief period, but I cared deeply for him as a friend and desired him as a lover; I can say that overall I felt more sexual desire for Francis than for my husband, but without being in love with Francis.
We designed that Surrender Ceremony among Dan, Francis, and me, adapting some documents from a "Submission Ceremony" that José Manuel drafted when I was his kept mistress a year earlier, and I also became his submissive besides being his lover. Of course, none of those documents have any legal validity or force, but they do have personal and sentimental validity, they are not legally binding but they are morally... by the way, I made sure that those documents contemplated the possibility of me having sex with other men apart from Dan and Francis, because although Dan is very liberal with me, Francis is very jealous. Still, he had to admit that I had that freedom of action. I will talk to you in even greater detail about all this in the regular posts that deal with my relationship with Francis.
After reading this, I suppose you understand why in my posts I have often said that the relationship I had with my husband and Francis was a textbook "ménage à trois”.
Well, returning to Olaso at the end the October, having such a hectic life, it wasn't easy for me to find time to meet with him for a couple of hours or three, because when I had some free time, I wanted to spend it posing and having sex with Francis. But, on the other hand, I was curious about what I would feel and do when I met Olaso again, not to forget that he attracted me physically and always had the hope to fuck him a day. So, I thought it was the best to have a date with him on a Sunday afternoon at the boring cafeteria we used to go to together. And so we did, we arranged to meet for a Sunday at 5 p.m. at "the usual café."
And now I'll confess something: when I gave him the blowjob in the lab, it was because it was a fertile day and I didn't want to seem so bold as to bring condoms to that date, so instead of getting laid, which is what I wanted, I had to settle for giving him a blowjob, but I always lamented not being able to fuck him that day. To me handjobs are just a mischief, and blowjobs light-sex, and I can do that very easily and almost with everyone that attracted me and is nice with me, the “true sex” for me is to fuck, or also to be impaled: let us say, to me “sex” is synonyms of penetrative sex - I don’t consider oral sex as penetrative - Along my life I did some handjobs and blowjobs out of charity (I am not kidding), but never fucked anyone for that only reason.
The problem was where to do it, and the most realistic possibility was in the rear seats of my car, Dan's Citroën Dyane 6, and as for the place, it was obvious to me: after sunset in an open field near some cliffs overlooking the sea where many couples went to have sex in the car at that time, and I had gone with Dan many times before we got married and lived together, plus it was only less than half an hour's drive from the boring café where I agreed to meet Olaso. Then I would have to take Olaso to the station of a commuter train that would take him back to the city centre and I would return home to arrive around 10 or 11 pm.
The place is very beautiful, even romantic and in a classy neighborhood, next to an old coastal defense fortress, and from there you can see magnificent sunsets. Now the area is less wild, and there's a parking lot on that field, although you still can see some couples there at night in their cars, but fewer than during the time I'm talking about. I also knew other places in the area to have sex in the car, as I had been doing it often with my fuck buddy Nestor for the previous six years, but this one I told you is the most romantic and classy and that in Olaso's case is important; he is not the kind of guy who wouldn't mind fucking me in or on the car near a rubbish dump, though I have done that and worse with other guys.
[[ Image 3. Above left, photo taken by Francis on our ‘Lovers' Honeymoon’ trip in January when I was 24, next to our Dyane 6. On the right, in the car park where we had our car to go on our second date with Paco, the extreme edge-play date, in the summer when I was 23. In the second row on the left, prepared to fuck in the car by the country side in October when I was 23, the first time Francis and I went for a weekend alone (I recommend you take a look at Post 13, I think you'll like it). In the second row on the right, a photo that Gorka took of me during a trip to his house in the province of Burgos when I was 32 years old (I've talked a lot about Gorka in the Posts about Lalo, see Posts 123, 125). The two photos below were taken by Dan on April 22nd 2024 exactly where I was fucking in the Dyane 6 with Olaso in November when I was 23 years old. ]]
As for the excuse to go out alone on a Sunday afternoon, that was also very simple; regular readers know very well that my husband allows and encourages me to have my own sexual adventures whenever I want and with whomever I want, on the sole condition that after I tell him in detail everything we did on the date. That's why I told him that on Sunday I had a date with Olaso and that I didn't rule out having sex with him in the car because I felt like fucking him, and I told him so frankly and Dan encouraged me to do it, and even on Sunday morning he washed the car himself, interior included, and went to fill up the petrol tank; yes, Dan is like that.
However, just as my husband is extremely liberal with me, by then I had already realized that Francis is very jealous. Let me explain: Francis loves my husband very much and they have always stood up for each other, so Francis didn't like me having sex with anyone other than Dan and him, which is why we didn't tell Francis about the three sexual adventures I'd had on my own that summer holiday on the Costa Blanca, which ended in a quickie with each of the two guys I'd hooked up with in nightclubs, and with two "extreme edge-play" encounters with a mature department store owner - Paco (there is a lot of Posts in this Blog talking about Paco) - and he proposed me a mutually beneficial agreement, on very advantageous terms for me, to have sex once or twice when he called me when I was on holiday in the area: I accepted, and that agreement has worked until the summer of 2023, more than 35 years (!).
So, I lied a bit and told Francis that I had arranged to meet my old friend Victoria, whom he also knew, that Sunday afternoon, which seemed the most natural thing in the world to him. I have talked about Victoria in many of the first Pics of the Day, those of my affair with Zoran when I was 27 years old, and I will tell you about her another adventure that she and I had with “three” guys when I was 20 on a "crazy getaway" Telma and Louise style (but without the cliff) that we did to Marbella (southern Spain); I will tell you about this trip in a future Post.
I had everything organized and prepared for my date with Olaso, I even put a box of condoms in the glove compartment in case Olaso was shy about fucking a married woman bareback. There are men who have this problem with married women, I know from later experiences, and considering that Olaso was a bit squeamish and Catholic, maybe filling a married woman's pussy with his semen seemed excessive to him, that's why having condoms on hand was the most convenient thing to do. Besides, since the condoms were in the glove compartment of the car, they were supposed to be the ones my husband and I used, so it was less of a tell-tale sign of what a slut I am than if I had taken them to the date in my handbag. As you can see, I like to plan, and have a plan B, and sometimes even a C.
I'll continue talking about my November meeting with Olaso… but I will tell you about that date and others I had with him in the next Pic of The Day, I promise.
Anyway, I can tell you that in the more than thirty-five years since the day I gave Olaso the blowjob in the lab, we met and had sex on seven other occasions, and not just blowjobs but we fucked, always bareback (I confirmed that info checking my Intimate Diaries): three times in the first year after he returned from the USA and the rest scattered over time, with the last one being in 2019. And as I mentioned before, I don't rule out the possibility of meeting him again soon.
Olaso has dated two or three girls for short periods of time, but he has never married, as is often the case with guys who have been raised being very dependent on their mothers. I believe he has always loved me; I feel sorry for him, the only thing I can give him is sporadic sex, but not love.
However, I've always had a certain feeling of guilt about my behavior with Olaso, even though I know that love cannot be forced. Because of that feeling, I have agreed to have sex with him whenever he has suggested it, but being the good guy that he is, it hasn't been many times. Besides, even at his over 60 years of age, Olaso remains such a handsome man that he attracts attention wherever he goes, so I don't have to make any effort to have sex with him.
Kisses
Aura
47 comments
Yes it's morally document but it's exciting to be in the life yeah I love it.... good to celebrate olaso back in country ... good to arrange your date with olaso like that really Francis is very jealous on the contrary of Dan he's making everything to the date... it's Amazing place too And exciting like parking lot ... And Amazing u have condoms there..u are told olaso fucking me more times i think his performance is better now ... he's like me in loyalty of love...but in dating maybe different i have tools but where's the girls... waiting for naughty date.. Delicious 😋 pics.... And it's in last Wednesday too you're still beautiful
Hi Alfedo,
As always you so nice with me!
Yes, I helped Olso to become a man, and yes we had sex many times over the two next years and a few times up to 2019.
Kiss
Aura
@Mibelayze yes kiss 💋💋💋
That mirror really seemed to like you ☺
Aura
Sunsets over the ocean can be beautiful, you are remarkably beautiful.
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I love sunsets! better in good company
Aura
@Mibelayze I live on the East Coast, morning over the ocean is not as romantic nor is it beautiful. It is just a call to a new work day.
You could never have a restaurant like Nepenthe, Big Sur. You must take an indepth look at it. To eat looking out over the Pacific as the sun sets. Per chance to take your breath away.
@JuicyAltoonaCock
Wonderful! Thank you for such gorgeous photos! 😘💋
Years ago I was a week in California in a work trip and I loved it though I had not much free time for visit and relax. I could live there 😄. In the East I have been in New York and Florida, and in the West in Idaho where I have some relatives living there.
I love the picture of you next to the blue car you are so very lovely.
Thank you I have so good memories of that car! ... and the things I did "in" and "on" it with so many fiends!
Kiss
@Mibelayze that is a cool 😎 car
I love to read what you have to say, and thank you for sharing it with us. Aura, you really are a very talented writer. Have you ever thought of taking your posts and writing an erotic novel, or just writing a novel? When I look at your pictures that you share with us almost all of them you have this beautiful glow on your face. You really are a very beautiful woman. Have you ever thought of finding a man to have a triad or throuple relationship? I hope the men that are in your life know just how fortunate they are. 🔥😘
Hi!
You always make such flattering comments, for which I'm grateful. Your questions are also very interesting, and that's why I'll answer them sincerely and with the necessary detail.
Regarding writing an autobiographical novel about my erotic life, I don't have nearly enough literary knowledge to do so. Additionally, please bear in mind that English is my third language: my native language is Spanish, followed by French, as I've always been closely connected to France; my husband is half French, his sister and nephews live here, and for almost ten years now, my husband and I have lived most of the time in the southwest of France, although close to Spain. English is the language I've primarily used in my work, as most of the technical information I needed was in English. Also, I've traveled to the USA several times for work and to the UK frequently. I had -and perhaps still have- an Scottish lover for years who spoke Spanish quite poorly, so we often used English, or rather Spanglish, but as I mentioned, when I write in English, I feel a lack of fluency and agility; I feel clumsy. Since the vast majority of Blogland followers are English speakers, I chose to write my blog in that language, but if I had the same fluency in English as I do in Spanish, I think you would have enjoyed my posts three times as much 😊
Now, speaking of triples or triple relationships; throughout my married life, I've been in MFM threesome relationships, first with Francis for 20 years, and then with Dean since 2004, although with several long periods without seeing each other that have lasted even for years. In those gaps in my relationship with Dean (a relationship we are trying to resume again), I've had other fleeting threesome relationships. But even when I had that stable threesome relationship with my husband and Francis and later with Dean, I also had sex on my own with flings (especially during my work trips) and sporadically but steadily with three other men: José Manuel, Néstor, and Paco. What I've never had is a sentimental relationship of the MFMM type, although I have had sex with three men at once quite a few times... well, more than a few.
I believe I've made the men I've been with happy, and they are a lot , and I at least try to make happy all those who appreciate me. But it's true that there have been many who have not known or wanted to appreciate my dedication and what I offered and gave them, and of them, the one whose distant attitude hurt the most is Dean, because apart from being lovers since 2004 (although with many blank spaces as I told you before), for a while he and I were in love, and although I'm no longer in love with him, as the saying goes: "Where there was fire, embers remain."
A kiss, and I wish you an excelent weekend.
Aura
@Mibelayze have you ever tried writing in Spanish and then when you;re finished using google translate or other program to translate it into English? When I had mentioned triad I mean for all three of you to live together so that's different from what you write about. Could you live with two men who both love, want, and desire you? You could still meet other men if you so desired. Lastly if I took a vacation can I stay with you with no exceptions of having a sexual relationship?
@MrRareity
Hi,
Google translator is a complete disaster, it is useful to translate the instructions of a corkscrew , but is useless for more complex stuff. Anyway, I don't need a translator because I can write in English pretty well and I have a good vocabulary, what I do is to check some paragraphs with DeepL that is way better than Google Translator.
About liing at home with two guys, I did that in the times of Francis that I am talking about here. He practically lived at home with me and my husband for several months. But considerd tha my husband and Francis were best friends since childhood. On the other side, many "special friends" for 3somes stayed at home for up to five days, no more. I could handle living togeteher more time with the two, but not my husband. And to your last qustion the answer is of course no Such things as a friend staying at home is only if and when he is a "friend". And on the other way, I don' use AFF to hook up, but looking for an special friend of me and my husband to start a long-term relationships of hetero MFM threesomes
Kiss
Aura
@Mibelayze I should have made something more clearer. I didn't mean for a sexual relationship. Just as a place to stay and maybe have both of you show me some of the beautiful places Spain has. But at least I know who to ask where to stay and what to see.
Mmmm toda una mujer deliciosa y hot 💋🔥🔥🔥😋
Y slut, no lo olvides ,,, 😀
Gracias por los piropos! ☺️
Un beso 💋😘
Aura
You are just lovely
Aura
Thank you
Aura
Fabulous sexy erotic pics you look so hungry and wanton for pleasure mmmm x
Always! Please remember that I am a hypersexual slut!
Kiss
Aura
Aura, Your story is very hot and loving, you have a fantastic way of sharing it with your pictures!!
Thank you very much for what you say . I strive to make my posts as immersive as possible, making the reader feel like they are living with me the adventure I'm narrating. And to achieve that goal, I believe that photos are quite helpful.
Kiss
Aura
Recuerdo a Olaso, la verdad es que era un buen chaval, pero estoy seguro de que estaba más enamorado de la Mecánica de Fluidos que de tí. Me alegra saber que sigue en forma, y según dices todavía no se ha jubilado... siempre ha sido un pringado, hiciste mejor casándote con Dan, que aunque es un workalholic, además de muy inteligente es "muy listo"... y un liberal extremo contigo mi querida putita. Aunque él y yo no somos muy compatibles, siempre he respetado y admirado a tu marido, ya lo sabes.
Besos y hasta pronto! Julio está a la vuelta de la esquina!
N
Sí, Olaso es un poco cándido, pero es buen chico.
Si, falta poco para la reunion de julio, y además ya tenemos preparado un menú muy variado Estoy impaciente.
Besos
@Mibelayze
Una pregunta, ¿cuando tú y yo volvimos a encontrarnos durante mi primera crisis matrimonial, y tú tenías 26 me parece, también te veías de vez en cuando con Olaso?, es decir que tenías sexo con Dan, Francis, José Manuel, Olaso, Paco y yo? !Seis tíos mas tus ligues de una noche! Qué p*tita deliciosa has sido toda tu vida. Y digo esa palabra con toda intención pues tu acuerdo con Paco iba de eso
@RotsenOgimautb
Todos esos, pero se te han olvidado dos más... a los 26 yo me veía con Ignacio en algunos de mis viajes a Madrid, y Diego qué?, ese año fuisteis 8 tíos digamos "fijos" y cuatro ligues
@Mibelayze
ES verdad! Se me había olvidado Ignacio, no me acordaba. Y lo de Diego que empezaste ese año a tirártelo. Asi que eras una "modelo" que posaba para Diego?... yo creo que eras otra cosa que él contrataba y con la excusa de que eras una modelo desgravaba impuestos... aunque bueno, las fotos están ahi ¿no es cierto? Es decir que al menos una pequeña parte del tiempo que pasabas con él en Pamplona posabas, aunque solo fuera para cubrir el expediente. Además de guapa y deliciosa slut, siempre has sido muy lista.
Besos
N
@RotsenOgimautb
En efecto, con Diego era así, era lo que él quería.
Ahora se entiende tod, gracias, estoy impaciente por saber lo que paso en la cita!
Gracisa David, estoy escribiéndolo ahora y espero subirlo al Blog mañana, pasado como máximo.
Un beso
Aura
My beautiful lady, love your stories, your photos are priceless
such stunning beauty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you very much Rob!
Kiss 😘💋
Aura
@Mibelayze 😘😘😘😘
It's always a pleasure to read about your multi-layered adventures and enjoy your stunning pics. 💕🔥👍
Thank you Paul, is always a pleasure to me to share my “multilayered” adventures for readers like you 😘💋